Compromising certain things for living a happy life is definitely a wise decision, but sacrificing everything with the word “compromise” is not at all good. You have got a beautiful life, and the most important thing is to live your life according to your choice. Loving people, spending time with them is always an important part of one’s life. But it is far better to move on from a relationship that doesn’t grow you, serves you or makes you happy anymore.
There are a lot of people who lose their dignity and self-respect just to make others happy. But at the end of the day, they lose their confidence as well. And a low confidence person can never become successful in life.
Unknowingly, at a certain point of time, we all compromise with our dignity and self-respect without any realization. However, such practices are highly insupportable. For instance, when we start planning our day around the activities and undertakings of another person, trying to impress that person, we are losing dignity. When we start to transform just to make the other person happy, we are actually undervaluing us! This may sound weird or harsh, but in actual, this is the ultimate truth.
At certain stages, we all need to take some tough decisions, be it personal or professional; we should always keep in mind about our value as well as dignity. We must not compromise our self-respect while taking the decisions.
There are many people who will criticize this kind of thinking; they even can address it as selfishness as well. But they will never understand how worth actually you are. Never forget that it’s you who only have the ability to handle stress and deal with useless creatures accordingly. So never underestimate your values, ethics, self-respect and most importantly the dignity for the sake of others. If you keep on compromising your dignity then deep inside you are actually punching your inner confidence.
I feel proud that I’ve regained the self-respect and dignity that once I sacrificed for a useless person. According to my personal experience, I can strongly say that never ever compromise your value. Because if a person really loves you, then there will be no question of compromising anything, instead you will automatically be showered with a happy life!
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